It feels like 2020 is flying by at the speed of light. I can barely keep up with all that’s happened and still happening. A couple more months and that’s a wrap. There has been little progress regarding the pandemic in the U.S. whereas other countries are already resuming most daily activities. And with considerations of factors such as the ongoing concerns of climate change, pyromaniacs, and even an irresponsible gender reveal party three weeks ago has turned most of California and the west coast of the U.S. in flames. Adding more oil to the fire. Thankfully the fire closest to us is almost nearly contained. About a week ago, we experienced a 4.6 earthquake barely a few miles away from the epicenter. Despite all the chaos, this has thus far been the most meaningful, eye-opening, and memorable year in my life. This year, the pandemic allowed me to rediscover free time which I’ve used for self-growth and being present with life’s simple pleasures. A few months ago I found a community of empowering therapists, studied diligently, passed my licensing exam, and became a licensed therapist! I also got to prioritize more of my time on my family relationships that I’ve neglected far too long and found more peace with them. I’m continuing to work from home and this has allowed me to slow down and focus on important aspects of my life that includes myself, community, friends, and family. I’ve gotten the chance to see and explore more of California than I had ever imagined. Some of my favorite memories: driving through the giant seqouias, stumbling upon a meadow of flowers, watching sea otters in heavy fog, exploring sea caves, watching the Perseids meteor shower, and cruising through PCH. This has been a year of grief, pain, anxiety, and frustration I think I needed to experience to learn more about the importance of patience, forgiveness, and acceptance. I’m still trying to make meaning of all that unfolded and continues to unravel in 2020. I still have hope that the future is something I can look forward to five years from now. What have been your highlights of 2020 so far?
